
**Ring
Ring**
-Hello?
-Hey,
This is Scott, is Nicole there?
-Hey
Scott, it's Nicole. How are you?
-Well,
Nicole I'm pretty great. Do you know why? Because today is one of my fun
days.
**Cue
the hyperventilating provided my yours truly**
-Today's
the day I get to call all of my official exchange students.
**Enter
more hyperventialtion, enormous smiles, happy tears, and sisters crowding
yelling "What's happening? What's so exciting?!**
-Oh my
gosh THANKYOUTHANKYOUTHANKYOU! Thank you so much!
From
there I figure you know what happened next. Some especially fortunate girl
named Nicole got to be an official exchange student, and her whole life
changed, and everyone lived happily, bilingually ever after.
But
before we get to that point, I'd like to introduce you to the luckiest lady
in that story.
Surprise! It's me, Nicole Marie Bishop and I'm going to Spain!
I'm 16
years young now, but by the time I exchange I'll be 17. I live with my
family, my parents, two younger sisters, and my grandmother in a small town
in central Florida.
I'm
currently a junior at East Ridge High School, which means I'll be spending
my Senior year abroad, in Spain nonetheless!
This is
an incredible opportunity that I'm so excited about, and something that I've
wanted to do for a very long time. Moving 6 times before the age of 12 makes
you pretty adaptable to change.
When I
was in 5th grade, we hosted an exchange student from Thailand, and earlier
in the summer in 2010, I exchanged for the first time to France! It was only
for three weeks, but I've been bitten by the travel bug, and whew am I
sucked in!
I've
been taking Spanish classes at my school since 6th grade, and I just
recently finished a semester in AP Spanish at my high school. 1 of 12 proud
students to have completed and passed the class!
I am
very thrilled to have this opportunity and I'd like to thank so many people
for supporting me in this process! My parents and sisters, first and foremost,
for being so enthusiastic for me. John Siegel
and Scott Krogmann for getting me more connected and helping me throughout
the process of applying, learning, and growing more. Rotary Club of South
Lake, for supporting and sponsoring me throughout both of my exchanges.
Señora Levy, for making me believe that life is all about choices, and how
to make the right one. And my exchange sister, and confidante of sorts,
Albane, for being the first person my age to go through all of this with me! |

September 29
I thought I was prepared.
• I had my long awaited Blazer, complete with a few scattered pins, a shiny
new name badge, and those fancy cards we all received at the second
orientation in June.
• I had my camera in an easy access pocket (for me, not pickpockets), in my
carry-on bag, ready when I needed it.
• I had spent countless hours reading up on the journals of past exchange
students to Spain, to discover any and all secrets of the country I would
soon call my temporary home. Greetings, Manners, and customs alike.
• I knew just about everything I could about my host family, with the help
of emails, Facebook, and the ever so popular Skype.
• I had prepared an Adios Fiesta with the help of my friends and family, for
a final send off.
• I had read and re-read "An Exchange Student's Survival Guide", and tried
to mentally prepare myself for any and all situations ahead.
But even with the phenomenal guidance and assistance from Rotex, Outbound
orientations, Google Translate, and Al Kalter, nothing can fully prepare you
for what is sure to be the most intense, spectacular, trying year of your
life, thus far.
• Sure I had my camera at the ready, but not even Kodak can capture the
beauty that is a Mediterranean sunrise, viewed during a walk with your host
mom.
• I had known that goodbyes would be hard and Kleenex would most definitely
be making an appearance, but wasn't warned to bring the extra four or five
travel packs for the "Climate Change Cold" I happened to experience just
three days before school started.
• I had "researched" for lack of a better, less creepy word, my host family,
but emails can't tell you about the warm fuzzy feeling you suddenly find in
your "corazon" when your host mom calls you "cariño" or loved one, before
your go to bed on your third night of your new life. Skype doesn't introduce
you to the giddiness that shoots through you when your host brother
introduces you as his "American Sister".
• And though I had practically memorized passages of "An Exchange Student's
Survival Guide", simple words on paper can't ready you enough for the
emotions experienced after your first day of school in a country previously
unknown.
-Giddy, because there is a group of people who find you fascinating and
foreign, and take you in within 5 minutes of the first bell ringing.
-Anxious, to Skype with your biological family (a term you have given to
them, for you now have two) and tell them all about it.
-Frustrated beyond anything, because you don't have enough words in your new
vocabulary to try and explain to your host family that English Oral Class is
probably your favorite, but not for the reasons they assume. It wasn't
because it's English, and you finally completely understand something for
the first time in two long, trying weeks, but because there were 25 other
lovely students who were right next to you, in your exact situation.
Struggling to comprehend and understand a literal different language, in
order to move forward. 25 other amigos who gladly offered their assistance
with Spanish, if you could help with pronunciation in English.
-And so so so tired, for many different reasons, but this is the kind of
tired one can get and be so extremely excited because of all those reasons,
knowing that something incredible will come as an end result.
There will be hard days, and there will be harder nights, when the only
thing you crave is a hug from your mom and dad, and sisters of course. I
haven't forgotten you Holly and Jenna! When the only thing you feel like
doing with your friends is showing them that you can, in fact, do something
with the brain power of a normal 17 year old, and take a drive to Chick-Fil-A.
But one month in and I'm convinced that the brighter days will out-number
the dark. The days full of smiles so big they hurt, and laughter so jovial
you can't believe you haven't known these people all of your life.
So, I am finally prepared. Bring on the times, good and bad, because
without both we wouldn't experience what is sure to be the most thrilling,
challenging and rewarding year of our lives.
The days full of smiles so big they hurt, and laughter so jovial you
can't believe you haven't known these people all of your life.
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Everyone being exhausted and excited at the airport! |
Host brother and I at the Torro del Moro, for which my town was
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Paella! |
"Spanglish" Bar! |
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The Archives my host mom works at. |
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January
22, 2012
Long time, no write, right?
I distinctly recall thinking to myself as I read the journals of last year's
out bounds, that perhaps I wouldn't be overwriting, but certainly I would be
an exchange student that sent in their required journal every three months.
As there has been a four month gap in between my first journal and this one,
it's obvious that that is a whole lot of an easier said than done. Most
cases end up being that there is so much going on during the year abroad,
that no one has time to sit down and write all about it. Sometimes even the
thought of sitting down to scribe a well written, thought out email for
those expectantly waiting back home can be frightening. I'll tell you all
honestly, thinking about getting settled in to write a grammatically
correct, spell check proved journal scared me a bit. But exchange is all
about discovering new things about another people, learning about another
culture, and about discovering, learning and growing the most about
yourself, so here it goes.
Spain is literally not at all what I expected, and in that statement
brings us to my dad's favorite quote. "Don't make expectations". Seemed like
a load of wisdom and philosophy when said to me back home, but had I
followed that excellent advice, I don't think I would have been quite as
shocked as I was when I discovered that the Spaniard population doesn't eat
rice and beans every day, don't go running with the bulls each weekend, and
that the popular dance of Flamenco is not danced by every man, woman, and
abuela here in Spain. They don't shout ¡Ole! after every phrase stated (that
was specifically for YOU, my dear Maya) , soccer is not loved by each and
every Spaniard (though nearly all of them), and I've actually eaten less
spicy food here in five months than in six years in Florida.
These past five months certainly not have been vacation months, and I do
believe I've worked harder at learning this beautiful language than anything
else I've ever been taught in my life. Now that we've almost reached the end
of January, and I have no idea what you need to be able to do to be
considered "conversationally fluent", or all out fluent, but I can tell you
that I understand 99.9% of everything that is said to me, everything that I
read, and most recently, my proudest accomplishment is being able to
randomly listen in to conversations and understand the rapid Spanish that
flows from their "bocas". I have given multiple hour long presentations on
the most random of topics, written multiple paged essays with less and less
errors each time, and have little problem reading out loud in front of the
class, the Rotary club, or my very own host family at the Christmas Dinner.
It honestly makes me laugh at how nonsensical I must have sound ed back in
Florida when I said I didn't want to try to speak with a Spanish accent,
because I thought I would sound ridiculous. After nearly twenty weeks of
studying, listening, reading, writing, DREAMING, and most of all speaking in
Castilian, I still love the surprised and pleased look on people's faces
when I start to speak to them in their language. I suppose it helped that
the only people I speak in English with, are my parents, sisters, and
friends from Florida through Skype. I was very determined in the beginning
not to speak with anyone in English as to practice more right off the bat
with Spanish, and have surprised myself with how well I've stuck to that! Of
course, everyone wants help with their English homework, pronunciation etc,
which I gladly give as they're so patient with me and give help to me all
the time in Spanish. Though after so much time of not writing so much in
English, I definitely don't feel as confident as I did before I left for my
year abroad!
Next topic, school. I ended up getting lucky (in this aspect) with my
school here. my town in Spain is a very popular tourist town, and nearly
half of the tourists end up moving here to live. Because of this, there are
forty nine different nationalities in my school here, in just 700 students!
I've just recently found out that I honestly am the only American. I have
friends from Poland, Colombia, China, Norway, Brasil, Argentina, Germany,
Mexico, Finland, etc. The most amount of people come from Sweden, Morocco,
England, and Russia. Because of this, I was lucky enough to get real Spanish
classes here, as there are so many more people who need them as well. I have
nine hours every week, and I really do enjoy them. As for outside of my
language classes, I'm with the rest of my class in Second Baccalaureate, the
equivalent of Senior Year. It's quite different from what we consider Senior
Year in the States. When you have 16 years here, you are able to choose if y
ou want to continue your education, or if you want to go into the work
force......or do nothing. This means that the students I am with right now
really do what education, and to go to college. Second Bach is the most
difficult year, and they must study all the time, so it's difficult to hang
out with friends often.
Cultura y Comida? Not so much to the first one, ABSOLUTELY YES TO THE
SECOND. Coming from Orlando, I'm pretty used to tourism and palm trees and
beaches et cetra. As it so happens, Torrevieja is almost exactly like that,
without the Disney parks. It is an extremely popular tourist/summer town,
which means that from October to May, there is hardly anyone here with not
so much to do. There is a lot of British/Swedish influence here as well.
More than half of the people that live here aren't actually from Spain, and
it is not uncommon to be in the grocery store (MERCADONAAAAA) and here
English, German, Arabic, Chinese, French, Russian, Swedish, or Latin
American Spanish. The food has that same influence as well, but less. It's
actually quite a healthy diet. Being on the Mediterranean Coast, there are
many fruits and vegetables, and a lot of seafood. Octopus, Cream of Carrot
soup, and stuffed eggplant have actually become some of my favorite meals,
believe it or n ot. Of course, there are other customs that originated in
Spain, that are still around in Spain. We've just passed out of the holiday
season, which holds one of the most popular cultural traditions of this
country; Los Reyes Magos, or Three Kings Day. Though reindeer, Old St. Nick
and candy canes are celebrated here, the Christmas Holiday is not nearly as
popular as Los Reyes. In just about every town or city they hold an enormous
parade, called the Cabalgata, welcoming the Three Kings with their gifts to
the Holy Child. Interestingly enough, my first host father is actually El
Rey Melchor, the most widely known of the Three Kings! Because of this, I
was lucky enough to not only celebrate a "Second Christmas", but to actually
participate in the parade of my city, which attracted somewhere close to
6,000 people from the Alicante, Torrevieja, and Orihuela zone! Since we're
on the coast, the Kings and their magi arrive by boat (mini cruise ship this
year!) o nto a read carpet welcome to greet the crowd. Accompanying the
three Kings in the great parade, throwing candy out to the children lined up
and down the major street in my town. After the Cabalgata, the Kings visited
the local hospital and the nursing home of Torrevieja, to pass out gifts to
the residents. This year we finished about 11:30 pm, and that's when the fun
really started! As my host father is the most well known of the trio, El Rey
Melchor and his magi were requested at the houses of friends of my host
parents throughout the night to present gifts to the children of the house.
Finishing the seven or eight houses around five in the morning, we took a
quick siesta, and then woke up again around 11am to open our own gifts from
Los Reyes. Somehow, they knew my weakness, and I was lucky enough to recieve
my very own jar of nutella from the Three Kings themselves.
¿Qué más? Well, now that we've reached the second half of the exchange
year (NO ME DIGAS!) it is said to go by faster. I haven't experienced that
feeling yet, but we are only on the 21st day of the year. Rotary
unfortunately doesn't really exist here in Spain, so there aren't that many
opportunities to travel around the country. Luckily, we are allowed to
travel with the schools, so I will be enjoying five days in Florence, Italy
in just short of a month with my class! Later in March we will also be
taking two days to visit some museums in Madrid, so I'm really looking
forward to seeing a bit more of the European world in the next two months.
I'll also be changing host families at the end of February, but they live in
the same neighborhood as my first host family, so the transporting of my
growing collection of........gifts for friends and family back home won't be
too difficult.
I suppose we'll finish here with a congratulations to the Outbound Class of
2012-2013, yeah? Felicidades a todos! You all don't know yet what
opportunities will come from this year, and I hope it's enjoyed very much.
To those going to Spain, suerte! Es un país diferente de todos los demás,
pero creo que os vais a disfrutar mucho aquí. Una sugerencia útil para
vosotros; ESTUDIAD LAS FORMAS DE LOS VERBOS. El vocabulario os vais a
aprender muy rapido, pero las formas de los verbos son muy difíciles, como
no las tenemos en ingles, especialmente subjuntivo. Es una putada, pero
cuando sepais como se usa, no tendreis problemas. Suerte a todos!
Hasta la próxima---Nicole
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Rotary Wheel of Torrevieja with the other exchange student of our
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Once a year Medival Festival of Cartagena |
JAMONNN<3 |
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Where all the highways begin in Spain....Kilometro Cero! Madrid,
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Traje de Los Reyes Magos! |
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